Stalking and Harassment
Stalking is :
a crime!
not a joke!
not romantic!
not ok!
If you are feeling vulnerable, please download the free HollieGuard app which offers protection by enabling alerts to your chosen contacts, and can also be used for meetings or journeys. The evidence is admissable in court and provides added protection while away from home. For more details, please see https://hollieguard.com/
What is it?
Stalking causes the victim to fear distress, violence or to suffer serious alarm. To be guilty of the offence of stalking the offender must, on at least two occasions, indulge in conduct that causes the victim harassment, alarm or distress. The 2012 Act recognises stalking as harassment that may include persistent and repeated contact or attempts to contact a victim. It provides a list of examples;
contacting, or attempting to contact, a person by any means
publishing any statement or other material relating or purporting to relate to a person, or purporting to originate from a person
monitoring the use by a person of the internet, email or any other form of electronic communication
loitering in any place (whether public or private)
interfering with a person property
watching or spying on a person
unwanted gifts
rearranging items
always 'bumping into them'
calling Social Services with fictitious claims
The 2012 Act clarifies references to harassment causing fear in the 1997 Act. It uses the phrase ‘substantial adverse effect on the usual day-to-day activities’. Examples might include victims fitting more security devices, changing routes to work or arranging for others to pick up children from school to avoid the attentions of a stalker. As a result the victim has less freedom.
What can you do:
Take action, call the police and tell them what is happening; you will be taken seriously
Do not confront your stalker or respond
Keep a record of times and places, messages, call logs, emails
Download the Hollie Guard app https://holliegazzard.org/hollieguard/ This will alert your chosen contacts of your whereabouts by GPS and record sound and video
Tell friends, family and your workplace what is happening
Improve your safety - leave at different times, take different routes
Call Coventry Haven Women's Aid for help and support - T: 08001114998 or 02476444077
The National Stalking helpline: www.stalkinghelpline.org
The Suzy Lamplugh Trust: www.suzylamplugh.org
Hollie Gazzard Trust line: www.https://holliegazzard.org/
Statistics
94% of 358 female murders included stalking behaviour
1 in 2 'ex or known' stalkers will act on their threats (ex partner, friend, someone you've met once, dated once etc)
1 in 10 'stranger' stalkers, will act on their threats
80% of victims are female
71% of perpetrators are male